docs: strip self-referential/audience framing from the three reference docs
Remove doc-about-doc and reader-addressing framing (e.g. "A high-level map
of the codebase for a new engineer", "This document specifies…", "written
for someone implementing…", citation-convention notes) while keeping all
technical content, tables, spec §-refs, and sibling cross-links. The pages
now read as descriptions of the system, not of the document.