fix: Update event system documentation and local development scripts
The commit message captures the key changes:
- Added comprehensive documentation for the event system
- Fixed local development script to conditionally start services
- Updated feed worker to handle in-memory event configuration
- Improved clarity around event processing across different contexts
The changes address the main issue of duplicate feed worker processes in local development and provide a clear, detailed explanation of how events propagate through the system.
Co-authored-by: aider (anthropic/claude-sonnet-4-20250514) <aider@aider.chat>