vendor: harden SSDP IP selection for multi-homed hosts
Restrict NOTIFY/M-SEARCH and discover responses to real LAN interfaces
(skip bridge/vmenet/utun/awdl/llw), advertise ContentDirectory and
ConnectionManager service targets, and pick a routable source IP for
unicast discover replies. Fixes discovery on hosts with Tailscale and
phantom subnets where Location pointed at unreachable IPs.
Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.7 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>