docs: bring internal docs in line with the as-built labeler + tap purge
- README: TAP_* env vars → INGESTER_*, labeler added to 'how it works'
- exclusions.md: the 'planned end-state' labeler note replaced with the
as-built reality (autonomous, negation-corrected, no review queue)
- spam-detection-plan.md: status plan → BUILT, with the deltas from plan
(label renamed, composed-vs-generated line, majority-of-3 gate)
- hydrant.md: marked HISTORICAL (tap is gone; our ingester covers it)
- api.md: /api/labeler + /admin/label documented
- docs/README: labeler in further-reading; stats footer links /labels
Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>